Meet Lis Hoyte
Coercive control education specialist
CPD Accredited Trainer · Expert Speaker · Former ICCC Committee Member
My Story
Lis Hoyte’s work in coercive control education is grounded in both professional expertise and lived experience.
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For almost two decades, Lis lived within a coercive and controlling relationship. Like many victims, the abuse was not immediately recognised as abuse — control was subtle, persistent and designed to erode confidence, identity and voice over time. Leaving was not simple. Rebuilding took courage, clarity and support.
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That experience now informs Lis’s professional work. She understands first-hand how coercive control operates, how easily it can be normalised, and how damaging it can be when young people lack the language or understanding to recognise it early.
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Today, Lis is a CPD-accredited trainer and expert speaker specialising in coercive control education across secondary, post-16 and alternative education settings. She works with schools, colleges and professionals to raise awareness, strengthen safeguarding practice and support early intervention.
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Lis has contributed to national education initiatives, including post-16 sector resources, and is a former committee member of the International Coercive Control Conference (ICCC). Her training is evidence-based, age-appropriate and designed to support educators and students in building safer, more informed learning environments.

How Schools Work With Lis
Education-focused support and training

What My Clients are Saying

Lis supported me through a very difficult and dark time in my relationship. She helped when I couldn't see a way out, and provided support that shaped my confidence, and built up a stronger version of me that was able to move through this. I found her coaching bought out things I hadn't thought of before. You can really feel the depth and strength of this lady when you meet her!
- Beki Eakins

Though I am not breaking free from a coercive controlling relationship.
Lis has supported me through the last months of lockdown with care and compassion. She uses a soft touch yet invites me to reflect on what I'm doing in an effective way. Lis is supportive and a safe haven for those stuck in controlling relationships.
- Tommy Carr

Lis has helped in ways she will never understand...she talks through everything and lets you step up into your own Power...anyone that is or has left an abusive situation needs Lis in their Life!
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Thanks Lis!
- Leanne W.
Contact & Bookings
Education and training enquiries
To discuss training, assemblies or bespoke programmes, please get in touch.
Email: lh-education@outlook.com
